WEIGH YOUR WORDS BEFORE YOU SPEAK

it occurred to me without doubt, that spoken words has power bestowed in them immensely, just passing by this afternoon to grab some items for myself along the street, I meet this woman and her daughter having a feud ,to my notice I was able to observe that it was a mother and her daughter within the age of twelve   holding her mum to ransom, it was like an eye saw to me cos I have not experienced such before so I took some few steps to their direction , already from afar I noticed that the mum was scolding her and the little girl was like holding the mums wrapper so firmly like bonds that wouldn’t let go any external force, when I got close to the scene not quite funny though but I was able to ask the mum what the matter was but she couldn’t say anything to my hearing, I only heard her daughter screaming to her topmost voice saying; you must tell me who my biological dad was, I paused and thought a while, the word “WAS” sank so deeply in me so I asked the mum why the was and she told me that her dad  died when she was four, I felt her plight though that’s not the matter really at hand then, I asked the young girl why are you holding your mum to her wrapper, she told me “that her mum was scolding her due to hostility established between them, she also said that her mum called her a bastard and the word really made her to behave in a lunatic manner  and that’s the reason  she held her mum on her wrapper cos she was deeply  annoyed” as she stressed.
I got what the trouble was and I ordered the young girl to leave her mums wrapper to my greatest dismay the girl insisted that the mum should apologize to her there and then seems a little bit difficult for her to do but I was able to plea with the mum to adhere to her say so she actually did. That’s how I was able to settle the dispute among them.

       in summary, there is power in spoken words had it been no one showed up nor intervened in their dispute who knows what the outcome might become, sort to say if it were in western countries like America, UK, Canada and others, this young girl could be able to sue her mum to court for the necessary castigation to take place, certainly and probably she might be charged of child abuse and mental damage she caused the child, she might also be charged of certain amount in other to free herself to the verdict the judge might pass. In other words , we should weigh our words before we speak and we should learn how to speak meticulously .